Valentine’s Day advice: ‘If it’s not on, it’s not on’

Kachelle Pratcher
Blue & White Flash / Staff Writer

Valentine’s Day is the most talked about holiday on a college campus simply because it’s a day to show affection for a significant other in a special way. Girls and guys around the world are buying gifts and making reservations for that perfect night out.

“Who doesn’t love Valentine’s Day? I am able to let my boyfriend know how much I care about him and we always have a wonderful day planned,” said freshman chemistry major Mechelle Jones from Detroit, Mich.

With all the love going around and romantic dates, don’t forget to practice safe sex with your loved ones.

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), 19 million new sexually transmitted infections occur each year around this time.

Also according to the Institute of Medicine, five of the top 10 most frequently reported infectious diseases in the United States are sexually transmitted. Many of these STD’s, include HIV/AIDS, herpes, chlamydia and gonorrhea.

“To me Valentine’s Day is just another day. Young people must continue to practice safe sex habits. You can express your affection for someone while being safe,” said junior accounting major Dontrell Banks from McComb, Miss.

Being romantic is a must on this wonderful day but you have to think smart because one mistake can result in a STI transmission. Instead of thinking why you can’t showcase your romance, think of planning a day that will ensure that both of you are prepared.

“Besides the fact that you can catch STI’s anytime of the year, why would you trust someone with your health just because it’s Valentine’s Day. I don’t get it — think smart people,” said sophomore graphic design major Tonya Fields from Jackson, Miss.

While shopping for those perfect gifts, include condoms on the list. Talk with your partner and examine the seriousness of catching a STI or becoming pregnant. There is nothing romantic about catching a STI from someone you love. Love responsibly and protect your sexual health.

Here are a few safety tips from the jeanhailes.org health website:
•    While the best way to avoid an STI is to avoid sex, you can improve your safety by always using a condom and having regular STI tests.
•    You can catch an STI at any age – you’re never too young or too old to practice safer sex.
•    Condoms are not just for stopping pregnancy – they are also the best way to protect against STIs.
•    STIs don’t discriminate – anyone can be at risk.
•    Follow the ‘no condom, no sex’ rule if you’re starting a new relationship.
•    Practice what to say to your partner about using a condom and remember it’s okay to tell your partner: “no condom, no sex” or “if it’s not on, it’s not on.”