{"id":3456,"date":"2014-02-27T21:55:04","date_gmt":"2014-02-27T21:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/jsuflash\/?p=3456"},"modified":"2014-02-27T21:55:04","modified_gmt":"2014-02-27T21:55:04","slug":"5-types-of-men-you-meet-in-college","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/2014\/02\/27\/5-types-of-men-you-meet-in-college\/","title":{"rendered":"5 types of men you meet in college"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Avi\u2019Yam Jordan
\n<\/strong>MC Practicum Student<\/strong><\/p>\n

Men with 4.0s… Men with many h%#s. Men that play with footballs… Men that play with hearts. While attending an HBCU\u00a0 in the south, I meet many characters, from different states and even different countries.\u00a0 From my experience with the opposite sex, these are the types of men I have met in college.\u00a0 \u00a0 Some men fall into one category, while others are a mix of a few. Brace yourselves…<\/p>\n

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\"\"<\/a>The Professional
\n<\/strong>The man who doesn\u2019t miss any of his classes. He usually has a 3.7 GPA or above. This guy is the man that every girl wants to marry, but does not want to date in college. He is the so called \u201cnice guy\u201d that the girls on the college campus usually pass up and only talk to when they need to copy his homework. (Cause everyone knows that he completes ALL his assignments.) Every once in a while, the professional will get some play from the ladies, but after most girls exchange numbers with him, they get bored talking to him via text, and when he calls he goes straight to voice mail. To most women, the professional will make a great study buddy, and maybe a great husband since many tend to major in medicine, science, engineering, e.t.c. The professional tends to lay low and go very unnoticed.<\/p>\n

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\"\"<\/a>The Player
\n<\/strong>Whenever you see this man, best believe there will be females. He\u2019s young, he\u2019s handsome, and he has the swag and confidence to make women drop the panties in a HEARTBEAT. Though there are freshmen that are players, the majority of them tend to be upperclassmen that prey on women in every class, especially the FRESHMEN GIRLS. Most players tend to party, club, and are infamous for the line, \u201cYou wanna come to my room to chill and watch movies?\u201d Ladies, please know that you are worth an actually DATE to the movies, and that the day you walk into his dorm (or apartment) to see a cheap bootleg DVD that he doesn\u2019t even watch was a waste of your time. The player tends to have average grades, because he puts most of his energy into hanging with his guys and going on the hunt for poon tang. Don\u2019t be the booty call ladies, please know your worth before the players on campus try to define it.<\/p>\n

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\"\"<\/a>The Athlete
\n<\/strong>Busy men. Practice, study hall, more practice! College sports can intense, but the athletes sure do know how to make time for what they want. The athletes come in two forms: The athletes that play for the love of the game and athletes that play for the love of the benefits. We all know that one athlete that goes above and beyond. He busts his butt in practice and on top of that is the star of his team. Soon enough this man is going to throw up the deuces to his teammates and make it to the big leagues. This guy has the campus groupies but places them to the left and the beneficial athlete swoops them up from the right. The beneficial athlete is the athlete that takes pride in the status that he has with his title. He always mentions how he is on the team and claims he has groupies. He wants to be like the star player and get the respect, love, and women like the star, but does not put in as much effort. He usually has mediocre grades and doesn\u2019t do much other than eat, sleep, have sex, practice, and play.<\/p>\n

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The Frat Man
\n<\/strong>The list could go on and on about the numerous amounts of frats you will meet in college. Men in fraternities can be somewhat of an aphrodisiac to some women. These groups of men with swag stomping the yard, strolling, and throwing parties. They can be grouped into the pretty boys, the rough neck thugs, and other personality traits that can draw different types of women to them in an instant. However, with the frat man, women need to be on their toes. Is he genuinely interested? Or are you a conquest to be told to his frat brothers? Does he spend time with you in public? Take you out on dates? Calls and texts you daily? Shows respect and appreciation towards you on a CONSTANT basis? Frat men can be really good men, but if you are to date one, it\u2019s best to do so if you are a upperclassmen. A freshman and a frat man can work, but it\u2019s always best to figure out how the men on campus are and to have a feel for your environment before jumping into a relationship with a frat man two months into your first year in college.<\/p>\n

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\"\"<\/a>The John Doe
\n<\/strong>Go to class, chill, eat, sleep, repeat, is the routine of the John Doe. There is honestly nothing wrong with being the John Doe. The John Doe is the average college man that just wants to make it. He doesn\u2019t have a stellar GPA like a professional, he doesn\u2019t have a female entourage like a player, he isn\u2019t much of an athlete, and doesn\u2019t belong to a frat, but is still a cool dude to shoot the breezes with. Most John Does come in two categories. The cool dude and the wannabe. The cool dude John Doe has great conversation, might be involved in a club or two, and just wants to make friends and enjoy his college experience. The wannabe John Doe is the average man that likes to convince people he is more that what he is. He wants to be like the player or the frat man and have great popularity, but unlike the cool dude, it\u2019s so obvious he\u2019s not being himself. He\u2019s a nobody that is very insecure within himself and lives in a fantasy world were every thing is more than what it is.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Avi\u2019Yam Jordan MC Practicum Student Men with 4.0s… Men with many h%#s. Men that play with footballs… Men that play with hearts. While attending an HBCU\u00a0 in the south, I meet many characters, from different states and even different countries.\u00a0 From my experience with the opposite sex, these are the types of men I have […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3456","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-variety"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3456","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3456"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3456\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3456"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3456"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sites.jsums.edu\/theflash\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3456"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}